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May has been a busy month for me but the highlights have been two visits to different gardens near to home. The first to Great Chalfield Manor, a 15 century manor house with Art and Craft gardens plus a church, … Continue reading
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The Wedding has taken place, no not Meghan and Harry, my great-niece Kerys and her fiancé Dan now Mr & Mrs Watson. On Friday 20th April family and friends gathered together at an hotel on the top of a Welsh … Continue reading
March has not been as I planned. I have had influenza then gastric flu for four weeks! Everything has been cancelled and today I am starting to feel “normal”. It has left me feeling weak, vulnerable and old!! Lots of rebuilding physically and emotionally to do but Spring is blossoming so I have time. Apologies to those bloggers who have submitted interesting posts that I intend to comment on later.
One thing I have managed to do now I am recovering is read so I have decided to submit a book review that I think you might be interested in. A friend recommended this book knowing I am not normally a fan of short stories. Reader, I Married Him edited by Tracy Chevalier is a collection of twenty one stories by different writers, some I have read work by previously others unknown. The writers took the final line of the famous book by Charlotte Bronte: Jane Eyre and their response to the novel is the impetus for their stories. The result is a mix of different scenarios, countries and plots. The short story format influences the context and action of each one. The discipline required to present just enough information must be intense and the gaps imply must so much for the reader to consider and assume. I have read Jane Eyre at various stages of my life from teenager through young woman and now an older woman but I am always surprised by the inner strength both Jane Eyre and Charlotte Bronte exhibit in their situations. Life as a Victorian woman writer was difficult, she and her sisters first published under false male names, but through these women generations of writers and readers have triumphed. Read this book and maybe it will inspire some you to new heights. As always I will be interested in your comments.
During this month Peter, my husband, has been amazing despite having flu for a week and I am glad “Reader, I married him”!
I wish all of you a very Happy Easter, with chocolates treats if you want them! Next month I hope to be back on top form.
Here is the link to the book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B015EXDQJO/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
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Thank you for the tips about starting to write which I appreciate. Blog time has arrived again, I feel time goes faster every year but it’s the end of February already. Today was set aside to write my blog, so … Continue reading
January started a bit differently to how I anticipated with a referral back to the Breast Care Unit. Everything has worked out well and yesterday I had the All Clear. During waiting times I began to think of how I use my use my time, do I fill it up with things to do or am I enjoying my time? Probably a mixture of both but I want to enjoy this next decade of my life.
Large chunks of our days are spent planning, shopping and cooking meals which mostly we enjoy but do any of you sometimes get bored of this activity? I do so have decided to cut some corners and have a delivery from a company called Hello Fresh which was recommended by a friend. I await my first delivery next week of three meals to tempt Peter and my taste buds, all the ingredients except oil, salt and pepper are provided. Meals are packed in a box with icepacks in case we are out so food remains fresh. Monday 29th marks a change of routine as the only decision I need to make is which meal to cook first. On offer is Balsamic Steak with Red Cabbage and Potato Wedges; Tray-Bake Chicken with Roasted Vegetables, Tomato Salad and Minty Salsa; Thai Pork Stir Fry with Green Beans, Holy Basil and Rice (not sure of Holy Basil as it looks like Basil in the photo!). There is an option to choose different recipes but initially I have taken the easy route by choosing a Classic Box. Directions are included with glossy pictures to make the process error free so I will report back on progress.
The question is am I being lazy or is this good time management? By taking the drudge out of the meals I am free to enjoy cooking them but also freeing up time to do other things. My life is full and active but increasingly I am allowing myself to stop, relax and just be. In an early blog I mentioned a W H Davies poem Leisure which remains a favourite and a reminder:
“What is this life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare …”
First published in 1911 it is so relevant today. So my aim for 2018 is to stop, stand and stare at times and my goodness what I see. Sparrows, blackbirds, starlings, robins, tits, pigeons and crows come daily to our garden with their various rituals. The sparrows inhabit our big green hedge and are a constant source of pleasure to people passing by with their constant chatter. We live in the centre of town, opposite a fire station and garage but are so lucky with our feathered friends. Some of our human friends who live in the middle of countryside rarely have birds due to changes in farming techniques.
One more question for all of you – what motivates you to start writing? Please don’t say start!!
I thought I would send a photo of our local Christmas lights at the Town Hall. It doesn’t do the display justice as it is grand, colourful and leads through the whole of our main street and market place but it represents what a strong community I live in. All year the Christmas Lights Team work long hours planning, preparing, repairing and generally getting ready for the big day – Switch On Day – usually first Saturday in December. The team are all volunteers giving freely of their time and expertise, a mix of ages and sexes but committed to providing a spectacular centrepiece for our town. Fundraising events, donations, food, entertainment all provided by volunteers and local businesses. During the day things start to build up with a Christmas Fair, Father Christmas visits too and last minute checks on equipment. Over the years the displays have become more sophisticated but so have costs such as insurance and equipment. The volunteers work tirelessly especially during the last few days. Their reward is seeing families, friends and visitors gather around the magnificent tree around 4.30pm in readiness for the big moment. A local child, often representing one of the local charities, is chosen to help the Mayor switch on. This year there are stunning special lighting effects which make the surrounding trees and buildings look magical. People come from miles away to visit and view the lights, donation boxes help fundraise for next year – forward planning here. Many of the shop keepers have individual trees lighted up on their shop fronts all adding to the magic. The lights stretch about half a mile through the town. Carol singing and cheering all add to the excitement. I am so proud to be part of this community but especially want to say the whole event demonstrates the power of people coming together for the greater good. Thank you to my Town.
Special thanks too to my blog friends, you are an amazing group of talented people who have given support, love and encouragement to me across the miles. Merry Christmas to you all and your friends and families.
I hope my American bloggers enjoyed a Happy Thanksgiving Celebration yesterday with family and friends. Thanks to everyone for your supportive messages last month. Peter is visiting the hospital for various tests and this week we are meeting with the Consultant to discuss results. We hope for a diagnosis, treatment plan and information as although Peter is brave and stoic it will help to know what we are dealing with – fingers crossed.
This month has been reflective in many ways but I have had some old experiences which are helping me deal with my stress levels and new experiences which have been very thought provoking, I will tell you one old experience which we have repeated over many years. A regular walk of ours is along part of a canal near to our house, we have various routes to and from it but the canal part of the walk remains consistent. Different seasons add to the experience but this time of year is our favourite as less people are using the canal and fewer cyclists. The light is different therefore the views of surrounding countryside seem enhanced. Lots of wildlife thrives alongside the canal and various ducks, moorhens and occasional fish inhabit the area so it is interesting. Occasional hazards occur when a local fishing club hold competitions and block the path but on the whole each group of people (and animals) co-exist. Strange specimen featured!
The highlight this weekend was a heron. I wonder if it is the same one that we have seen over the years but is probably an offspring. I keep meaning to find out more about herons as I am fascinated by their inscrutability and patience. This one waited for Peter to approach him, seemed to pose for the photo, glanced around then took flight looking majestic. These birds look so elegant even when flying despite their long legs. Our next encounter was with a pair of swans who swam right up to the bank, pecked at some reeds, then seemed to pose for the camera before gliding gracefully off. I wondered at first if they thought we had some titbits but they didn’t seem bothered. The two incidents enhanced our walk. I reflect on magical moments like these during the dark grey days.
My new experience is Gong Bath or Sound Yoga (Suntatya Yoga). Whilst yoga is one of my main exercise routines of the week this is totally different. Several of my friends have followed my example despite my not talking about my individual experience (unusual!!) as each person’s reaction is different. We assemble in a local hall, normally 8 or 10 of us, with yoga mats, blankets, cushions, comfortable clothing and lie on the floor for an hour with our eyes closed! BUT during this time Helen, a young qualified yoga teacher friend of mine, plays a variety of sounds using singing bowls, gongs, bells, pebbles, rain maker and other instruments but I am unsure of all the names. Occasionally Helen reads a piece of poetry near the end of the session or plays a piece of music. One week around Harvest she played Eva Cassidy’s Fields of Gold which conjured up various images for me. I have given a brief resumé of the sessions as it is impossible to describe. We are in a totally safe environment, in soft light and the effect for me is total relaxation. Apparently the scientific theory is that toxins are released by the sound waves which help release stress, thus helping the body heal and restore itself. I cannot say anything other than during the past year it has made an unbelievable difference to my stress levels. I sleep well the night of the session and the feeling continues for a several days. It is important to drink lots of water to rehydrate thoroughly as the toxins continue to be released. I am unsure of why this works for me and for other people I know, I am pragmatic yet spiritual too so might be susceptible. Two of my friends are deaf and wear hearing aids which they remove for the sessions but they experience similar feelings.
Old and New Experiences indeed but invaluable at this stage of my life. Relax is my word of the moment. I hope you NaNo Challenge writers are able to do the same! Good luck for the last week amazing people.