Fathers Day

no namesLast Sunday was Fathers day and as I frequently do I pause to be Thankfully grateful for my dad. The picture is of a family dinner My mom and dad are on the left,  mom’s leaning around dad. My Grandmother (Nana) is on the right. I thought and still do, that my dad was really handsome.

So many years ago and those in the picture have passed away. Yet the memories are always present and vivid.

Dad was raised in an orphanage from the age of about three months. His mother died right after he was born and his father couldn’t work and take care of him, his brother and sister, so he placed the three siblings in a Swedish Lutheran orphanage in Kansas (they were from Denver). I never heard any stories about his dad visiting but times were hard so I doubt if he did.

Dad treasured our family maybe more so because growing up he didn’t have any. He always had time to play and talk. I remember how my brother and I would beg dad to tell us stories about when he was a little boy in the orphans home. And, he did. As an adult, I’ve come to realize the gift I had in knowing my father as a little boy.

I read an article that said we influence life for seven generations. For good or bad. I don’t know about seven but I see my dad reflected in myself, my children and my grandchildren. Thankfully he’s a bright light.

I’ll leave you with my dad’s definition of success.   I first heard this when I was a teenager and I have passed down. Some things stay with you.

“There is something you can do better than the average person. Find it and if you enjoy it you’re a success. It doesn’t matter if you are a ditch digger or manager of a company, YOU ARE A SUCCESS.”

With that kind of blueprint, how can a kid not succeed?

Happy belated Fathers day, Dad.


12 responses to “Fathers Day

  1. Barbara Smith

    That was so beautiful.

  2. What an awesome homage to a wonderful man. I can see how special he was through your eyes and through the wonderful person you are!

  3. What a wonderful tribute to share and what a wonderful reminder of the role that we play in passing down and keeping those stories and memories alive!

  4. What a lovely post and a great tribute to your dad. I love his definition of success!

  5. Love your post!! We need a lunch date. I’ve missed you and want to get back to blogging❤️❤️

  6. What a lovely tribute to a very handsome man. Bless him for his sad early life and for being able to make his own happy family. He was a success for sure. I love his words of wisdom. JIllian

  7. Beautiful post and tribute. Reading this has made me realise how much I was influenced by my dad and his stories. Thanks for sharing.

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